3.14.2005
i love that when i wake up our feet are touching i am always clammy and sticky in the bed with her its only where our bodies touch though this has never been a concern of mine either because i wasn't sleeping that closely to the other person, or maybe the chemistry wasn't 'just so' but my leg outside the blanket is cold and the curl of my hip where wrapped around her ass is sticky as if it were july so in our sleeping states we determine that it is too hot too sleep entwined in such a way but i wake up with my foot sandwiched between hers
yesterday she was told that she 'could change' if she 'wanted to' "you are a girl you could hide' she was flustered and surprised because it was her mom saying it
"why the FUCK would i want to HIDE?!?!?"
and of course i had to put my 2 cents in
"hey YEAH!!! we could send you to one of those places where they teach you to be straight!!! i'm sure that would work!!"
so we had a mini debate, nothing heated but god was brought into the mix my reply "my mother's answer to that has always been "god doesn't make mistakes. and you are how you are'"
people love to think that they know about god and his entire inner monologue.
i must note that there was nothing hateful in the way her mother said it it was more like she just didn't understand and thought maybe it was that easy. and it was the comment of a mother 20 years ago who was more worried for how hard it would be on her child than disapointed or upset. it was that moment that something dawned on me and it all sort of clicked. they thought maybe it was a phase for her that after her last relationship she would have 'grown out of it' and found a boyfriend. instead they got me
i saw Monster for the first time ever last night. but i need time
.: posted by landry 12:00 PM
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